Coaching doesn’t happen in a controlled environment.
It happens in between missed sessions, stalled progress, high expectations, emotional moments, and seasons when clients or athletes are carrying far more than just training goals. In those moments, a coach’s presence matters as much as their expertise.
Great leaders understand that their own emotions set the tone.
In Part 4 of our End-of-Year Coach Spotlight 2025, we’re highlighting coaches who lead with calm and steadiness when things feel chaotic, how they navigate hardships, and how they establish themselves as a stable mentor for their athletes.
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Flex and Nala Townsend: Calm is a coaching skill
- Business: Flex and Nala Fitness
- Niche: Functional Performance, Sports Performance, and Longevity Coaching.
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Flex and Nala Townsend’s work centers on function, confidence, longevity, and performance, whether that means a 72-year-old rebuilding balance, a high school athlete chasing a state appearance, or someone learning to move pain-free again.
For them, leadership shows up most when things aren’t perfect.
When there is injury, stress, fear, doubt, and daily struggles. Instead of forcing the workout, Flex and Nala adapt to be more humane. Movements are adjusted mid-session. Workouts are modified in real time. Expectations are reset with clarity, not frustration. Through it all, he stays calm, present, and prepared.
That steadiness matters. Clients and athletes feel it in the way he watches every rep, explains every correction, and holds high standards without ego. They demand effort, discipline, and consistency, but never at the expense of care. For them, success is when clients say, “I’m capable,” instead of “I can’t.” He builds people so they can trust themselves again.
One moment that captures this leadership was introducing intentional, structured programming to his high school track and field athletes. The athletes didn’t just follow the plans. They bought into them. They took ownership of their development, and that trust translated into multiple state appearances and school records.
For Flex and Nala, leadership isn’t about control or spotlight. It’s about showing up steady, prepared, and invested so that others can rise with confidence, even under pressure.
Desiree Cuellar: Clarity breaks pressure
- Business: APX Training Concepts
- Niche: Coach / Bikini Prep & Lifestyle Coach (NPC/IFBB -focused)
High-pressure prep doesn’t leave room for chaos, and Desiree Cuellar knows it.
She coaches athletes through demanding seasons with structure: clear training, clear macros, and clear expectations. But structure alone isn’t enough. What sets Desiree apart is how quickly she notices patterns in their data, lifestyle, and mindset, and adjusts accordingly so progress continues without pushing athletes toward burnout.
Much of her leadership happens behind the scenes. Checking metrics. Noticing what isn’t being said. Planning around stress, sleep, and digestion. Making sure athletes feel steady, even when the plan needs to change. That stability is something her clients feel, especially during the most challenging phases of prep.
When they learned they didn’t need extremes to feel in control. That discipline carried far beyond competition.
When emotions ran high, Desiree brought athletes back to what they could control: daily execution. Meals. Training intent. Sleep. Hydration. Check-ins. Data replaced panic. Routine replaced self-criticism.
One of the most meaningful shifts came before any placement mattered. Athletes stopped chasing reassurance and began trusting the process. Confidence grew before physiques changed.
Looking ahead, Desiree is committed to protecting health and longevity. Smarter timelines. Better recovery. Clear boundaries around stress. For her, a successful prep is one where athletes finish stronger than they started, mentally and physically, leaving with confidence, resilience, and alignment that lasts well beyond the stage.
Alex Novicov: Lead with challenge and resilience
For Alex, his approach to leadership is simple: Instead of asking clients to follow instructions blindly, Alex challenges them to think. To understand what they’re doing and why it matters, not just inside the gym, but outside of it.
That perspective shapes how he leads under pressure. Alex is direct and no-nonsense about training and nutrition, but never detached. He believes goals require a 360-degree approach. You can’t commit to one piece and ignore the rest. His energy comes from genuine care. He shows up because he wants his clients to succeed, and they feel that investment.
One moment that stayed with him was when a client told him she felt stronger simply because she could lift her bag into the overhead compartment on an airplane. That wasn’t about numbers or performance metrics. It was about capability, independence, and confidence showing up in real life.
Alex often talks about resilience as a leadership skill. He embraces hard things, like cold mornings, because once they’re done, they’re done. They teach discipline, presence, and the ability to stay steady through discomfort.
In 2026, Alex is focused on doing less, better. Saying no more often and narrowing his focus so he can serve his clients at the highest level. For him, leadership under pressure isn’t about doing everything. It’s about showing up as the best version of yourself, consistently, so others can do the same.
Andrea Gelb: Coaching is building a mindset.
Andrea Gelb coaches in spaces where pressure is emotional, visible, and constant.
She works with young athletes and dancers, where performance is publicly judged, and confidence can shift in an instant. In those moments, Andrea’s leadership isn’t about pushing harder, but reframing anxiety and understanding the difference between pain and discomfort.
Her goal is simple but powerful: give athletes the tools and support they need to learn to trust themselves. She truly wants the best for them, and she adapts her coaching to each athlete’s needs, not to what looks impressive on paper.
One moment captures this clearly. Before a major dance competition, a dancer told Andrea that, no matter the results, she already felt like a winner. She could see her own growth, stamina, and confidence after a season of consistent work. That mindset shift didn’t come from pressure. It came from preparation, belief, and trust in the process.
Andrea helps athletes reframe anxiety by focusing on fundamentals that build confidence: proper fueling, steady energy from consistent meals, and the understanding that food supports, rather than threatens, performance.
Strength work, especially core strength and single-leg stability, helped dancers feel more powerful and controlled on stage.
When pressure hits, Andrea leads with empathy, belief, and consistency. Her athletes don’t just perform better; they excel. They learn how to carry confidence with them, long after competition day ends
Heather Downs: Leading from lived experience
- Business: JOY Thru Fitness, LLC
- Niche: Online Personal Trainer and Triathlon Coach
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Heather Downs leads from experience, not theory.
She’s been through her own weight loss transformation, and that journey shapes how she shows up for her clients today: energetic, prepared, and focused on helping people improve their quality of life, not just their fitness. Heather doesn’t ask clients to do anything she isn’t willing to do herself. She lives the habits she teaches, and that credibility matters when things get hard.
Her leadership shows up most clearly in how she problem-solves under pressure.
One client, training for a 70.3 triathlon at 68 years old, committed fully to her program. Heather trained alongside her, pushed her when it mattered, and helped refine her nutrition so race day came without gut issues or surprises. The result wasn’t just personal records in the swim, bike, and run. It was a renewed belief. The client prepaid for a full year of training and was excited to keep racing. For Heather, it reinforced a simple truth: it’s not about how old you are, it’s about how fit you are.
Heather believes leadership starts long before the workout. She emphasizes slowing down, beginning the day with intention, gratitude, and quiet time. Peace, not hustle, sets the tone. That steadiness carries into how she communicates. She listens more than she reacts, thinks before she speaks, and doesn’t lead defensively. Her past taught her the value of presence, patience, and face-to-face connection.
Heather’s goal is to help others feel free, empowered, and capable of living healthier lives. She leads calmly, grounded in faith, experience, and the belief that consistency, not chaos, creates lasting change
Wrapping Up
Outstanding leadership in coaching doesn’t demand control. It creates confidence.
When pressure rises, these coaches don’t react; they respond. They stay prepared when things feel uncertain, calm when emotions run high, and intentional when the path forward isn’t obvious. Their presence becomes the standard others rise to.
By leading with clarity, steadiness, and belief, they help athletes and clients move through chaos with confidence, not fear. Progress doesn’t pause under pressure; it sharpens.
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